Etiquette Thursday: Do you have a baby shower for your second child?

It's Etiquette Thursday!  This week I'm talking babies!

I recently saw an expecting friend ask on Facebook "Do you have a baby shower for your second child?"

There is an old belief that baby showers are only thrown for first-born children. The thought was that the mother already had all the baby gear making another shower unnecessary.  The reality is, with each child comes new needs and new expenses and this old way of thinking is quickly going by the wayside. 

I believe every child is special and should be celebrated in some way.  Non-traditional showers are a great way to change things up the second time around. Diaper Showers (where guests bring only diapers and formula) are great for Moms who may not need all the baby gear again.   Luncheons and Brunches are another great way to get the ladies together to welcome a new bundle of joy without all the fuss of a full shower. 

I asked a Mom-friend if she wanted another baby shower if she decides to have another child.  Her response...'It depends.  If I have another girl, I don't have the space or storage for even more girl stuff.  But if it's a boy, I'll need everything.'  And she's right...it really all depends on what the Mother wants and needs.  It might be best to ask her what she wants, that's what's most important anyway. =)

What are your thoughts?  Should every baby get a shower?  Or is that too much??